How to be Beautiful!

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How to be beautiful!

“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.” – Sophia Loren

For someone to love you, you must first find love in yourself. This statement doesn’t fit everyone. There could still be someone out there who is willing to teach you how to love yourself as long as you are willing to do the same for the other. I, of course, am not speaking out of the experience but it is what I have seen and believing is free. I have my days where I feel wonderful and love myself where others I feel like nothing. I will be sharing some tips with you that I follow to always think of myself on the positive side and just be beautiful.

I can’t believe I haven’t posted anything in a month. I’m ashamed. In my defense, I have been so busy, I went to the Dominican Republic and my time over there just kind of ran out without me noticing. I will be making a post about my trip there but I did not take as many pictures as I wanted. But back to the topic! Here are the tips!

Pamper yourself

By pampering yourself I mean – take care of yourself. Get your nails done, get your eyebrows done, get your hair done, try on that new face mask, have a girls night, etc. You also don’t have to be girly or spend any extra money for any of these. If you don’t want to go to a salon/nail place then just do it yourself. Do your own pedicure, manicure, wash your own hair etc., Spend the day alone or spend the day with friends, whatever makes YOU happy and refreshed.

Be selfish

You don’t always have to do what others want you to do. You don’t always have to be what others want you to be. Say no. I myself sometimes get tired of just doing everything for others and feeling used and never getting anything for me. So say no and spend the day pampering yourself or doing what YOU want to do instead.

Don’t compare

This is a big one. I feel everyone at one point in their life has compared themselves to someone. Don’t compare your chapter one to someone’s chapter ten. Whether it’s working out, school, life in general. People always see someone else being happy, doing better and just start comparing their life to others. Do not do this. If you wanna make a change then do it! That person probably worked hard to get where they are now and this isn’t easy! You won’t accomplish everything in one day!

Drink water

Water has a way of affecting your mind and body. It cleans you in a way we couldn’t imagine. So instead of grabbing that juice, energy drink, grab that water and drink it.

Eat healthy

Eating junk food gets us nowhere, you’ll be happy for a moment and then when it’s all gone you’ll just want more. Of course, also be selfish and have that one piece of chocolate if you so wish but don’t eat 10 chocolate bars/cupcakes because it won’t do anything in the end.

Think positive

This is probably hard to do but you have to stop thinking negative things. If you don’t or can’t think positive just think about someone else, maybe about a new show or some new gossip etc., but stop thinking you’re not worth it, you’re not better, you won’t get through the pain. You will just have to accept the fact that things take time but thinking negative is not going to make anything better and just slow you down.

What are things you do to feel and be beautiful?

May 28, 2017
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  • Reply Shannon

    Love this!! Many great tips and reminders!! I like to try and practice all of the above but they can quickly get off balance. Eating healthy is my constant go to.

    May 29, 2017 at 4:58 pm
    • Reply Thelovelywho

      Yeah, you are correct! I’m trying to work on a small checklist so those who save it can always have access it to it.

      May 29, 2017 at 6:17 pm
  • Reply June

    I wear nice clothing. Something about being dressed nicely that gives you that extra boost of confidence.
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    May 29, 2017 at 5:17 pm
    • Reply Thelovelywho

      Ooh yeah that’s also a good one! I can’t believe I forgot about that one, haha. Dressing nice is always a boost!

      May 29, 2017 at 6:17 pm
  • Reply Cori @ Sweet Coralice

    Ah, I love this post!!! We all get down on ourselves at some point or another, some more than others but these are very important ways to love and take care of ourselves. I know I always feel better (and pretty ) when I’ve done my hair and apply a lil makeup 💕💕

    May 30, 2017 at 2:57 am
    • Reply Thelovelywho

      Yes, I forgot to mention that but dressing up and just pampering myself, in general, helps me!

      May 30, 2017 at 3:43 am
  • Reply sonali jain

    I totally support what you have said in this post. loving yourself is most important for you. I workout and take care of my skin to feel beautiful. Feeling that strength and seeing good changes in myself makes me feel great .

    May 30, 2017 at 9:39 am
  • Reply Lisa

    I love to get a massage and have my nails done regularly because it makes me feel pretty and pampered. Which makes me a better gal all around!

    May 30, 2017 at 6:13 pm
  • Reply FS Page

    So well written.. I have seen many people comparing themselves with others and feeling sad about themselves. I love pampering myself. Thanks for the great tips.

    June 3, 2017 at 7:55 am
    • Reply Thelovelywho

      Yeah, I used to do that also and have no learned it’s never good. Like someone once said, you’re comparing your chapter 1 to someone’s chapter 10. You’re so welcome! 😍

      June 4, 2017 at 5:48 pm
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    June 14, 2017 at 4:16 am
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